I wrote this article five years ago, but it is as fresh as if I wrote it today. And, of course… I updated it.

On today’s Talk-to-me call I had an insight: I saw something I had never seen:

You are out of step with yourself.

The you that interfaces with the world, does stuff, makes mistakes, overeats, gets angry is either ahead of or behind the you that you really are. The you that tries to look good, keep up with the appearances is always trying to fix the you that you really are.

No acceptance, no tolerance, no compassion, no love, no music, no harmony, no dance, no peace.

Let me set this straight: the you that you really are doesn’t need to change. That is who you are. On the other hand the you that you show to the world is off… mistaken, misshapen, messed up…

So, simply put, the messed up one, the one you consider yourself to be, is trying to fix the one who is OK.

No wonder you are so desperate to find some peace.

Every single person on the call was dealing with the same issue.

Now, this is a little bit new to me, and I don’t even know if I can write a decent article about this… But you can listen and watch the replay of the webinar –>…

If you watch this webinar session replay, you’ll start to see how you are messed up and what may be a process that clears up the mess so you can start having a life worth living, where you are one, and not divided.

Here is the thing: the Winning and Keeping Love Activator –> works to bring the two yous closer, but if you don’t understand how this gap works, and than the blind you is trying to lead the perfect you, you may force it, and suppress it… so it is a must that you become ONE or at least close to ONE.

I am going to use the upcoming talk-to-me sessions to get clearer what people can hear, what instructions they can follow, so I can become effective at teaching to unify yourself, under the flag of the perfect one.

One of my long-time students has been asking for this, but I must admit, I didn’t realize how this worked for most people, and how far off you are, by societal training, from being one.

Everybody promotes the idea that we are one… but everybody thinks one with others, one with the Universe, and other garden variety horse sh*t… irrelevant, unimportant to you, as long as you are not one with yourself.

If you are at all interested in a life that is full of peace and harmony, start following this discussion, watch the webinar replays –>, come to the live webinars. I’ll have one webinar tomorrow… Saturday February 1, at 10 am Eastern Standard Time. This is a What’s Missing, what’s the Truth About you –>… Please register early: I want to be able to admit only people who have had their Starting Point Measurements –> done… so the registration needs to be approved manually.

Nothing will work too well, until you get the hang of it…

Bad news? Yeah. Bad news. Until you get it. Then it’s the best news ever.

Because this is not difficult, it is new. But not difficult.

Here are some examples of how the two selves are separated, leading to unhappiness, and efforts to fix it:

….May I pay you to activate the grit capacity in me? I don’t have grit but I need it. Also is there a capacity for cleaning up, getting things organized and keeping it that way? I am making an effort to clean and organize and it is hard for me. I am lazy and not smart. But I want to be better, to improve.

I think that my soul correction “Speak Your Mind” is accurate and sums up my duplicity, laziness, pettiness, lack of courage, small mindedness and limitations. It’s true but I want to be more, and become something better.

I feel like an actor who has played a good person. But now I want to be good, truly good. If you could share what spiritual capacities you think could help me in my quest, I would be so grateful. I play the Abundance activator in the background. I want to drink energized water and prepare a little before joining the playground.

Thank you for your kind help.

or another client/student who regularly gets entangled in the desire trap.

He behaves as if he were a genius, entitled to get knowledge, skill, without any work, entitled to be treated as if he already possessed those skills and knowledge.

In his imagination he already has it… But in reality: fantasizing doesn’t get you sills or knowledge…

So he is always upset, always subdued… because the world doesn’t treat him the way he sees himself.

His two selves are miles apart… and unless he can connect the two selves, and make them one, he’ll be some miserable wretch for the rest of his life.

The Winning and Keeping Love activator can come to the rescue. It is an amazing activator… you’ll see.

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