Most teachers teach that the core issue you have is beliefs. Even I wrote tens of articles on that… but as I am growing myself, as I penetrate more the mysteries of the “beyond” I am starting to see stuff I could not see then.
T. Harv Eker teaches: first the thought, then the feeling, then the action
He also teaches that instead of trying to change the result, go to the roots… this is a fruit tree analogy: instead of trying to pin some cherries on an apple tree, change the roots of the tree.
But, to my knowledge, no one has spoken of changing the soil, or changing the state your tree is growing.
Imagine if you could change that. Or if you could completely influence the tree, instead of you having a totally passive and effect-like relationship with regards to the growth and behavior of the tree.
The bad news is that you cannot change your beliefs, just like you cannot change the roots of a tree… without killing the tree. No matter what anyone tells you, beliefs are permanent alterations of your being. In addition, beliefs are part of the geography of your soul.
That sounds like real bad news, given that you don’t know anything more about this planet, called YOU… nothing more than what these ineffective, unhappy teachers taught you.