Wretched = (of a person) in a very unhappy or unfortunate state.
“It’s not enough that I should succeed — others should fail.” David Merrick

or how to be wretched, be on the competitive plane and be miserable, succeed or fail… Desire to receive for the self alone

According to Kabbalah, the Light can give you anything, as long as it doesn’t already belong to someone… The Light will not take away something from someone to give it to YOU.
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