There are people I like to work with, and there are people who have no interest in working with me, they remain separate, and there is no “us”.
The ones with no “us” are the majority. Most will talk at me, demand of me, and maybe accept stuff, but there is no working together, no common shared goals, no synergy.
I feel used, and I bow out, or I fire them if they are a client.
In fact, that is the only type of client I ever fire… So if you are one of those… now you know.
Life is like sex: you can go at it on your own… and have some satisfaction, but if you try it with another, you may have bliss.
And, of course, how you do anything is how you do everything: I pity the ones with the “I am on my own, doing it alone” type of people, who, in my experience, are 70% of all people. Male, female… equally.
Sexual abuse, molestation, sexual whatever, that America is in uproar about, is about this… one using another for their own gratification.