Here is a suggestion for your first 20-day skill building challenge:
Clean up your life, in just 20 days… with the “not giving a f*** method
Priceless. Brilliant. It works…
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I won’t do anything for money I wouldn’t do for free
I promised to you to report whether the method I recommended worked or not.
The method: tell the story in a way that you completely own what belongs to you, your actions, your reactions, your attitude, your thoughts, your emotions, your expectations, your intentions, etc. And keep telling the story until all the blame disappears.
Now, just by retelling the story to you, I managed to disappear the blame. (Of course I have been practicing taking responsibility for what I own, what belongs to me, for decades! You may not get such fast result!) I started to feel energized, happy, bright, and ambitious again. I started to ask questions and get answers.
Fear. Irrational Fear. How to beat it…
What is the psychological or ontological (being science or the science of being) underpinnings (basis, foundation) of unreasonable, irrational fear we deal with all the time… it makes no sense, there is no real danger, and yet, just the idea of something floods your chest with burning fear. (From the pit of the stomach in a shape of inverted triangle, the other points being the shoulders.)
If you haven’t, please read my article on taking your power back, I am referring to that article, and without reading it first, it won’t make sense what you read. OK?
Let’s look at fear historically: the irrational fear, where you could not see the “enemy,” probably originates with the destructive volcano eruptions, the floods, the darkness, caused by close-flying celestial objects, comets.
If you are not enjoying it, you are doing it wrong
If you are not enjoying it, you are not doing it right.
This is a principle… and like all the principles, it applies to everything, big or small.
If you don’t enjoy life, you aren’t doing it right.
Oy, that hurts… At least an hour a day, just after I get up in the morning, I don’t enjoy life… so I must be not doing it right.
I am going to look at that…
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How do you avoid feeling like a victim and take responsibility when clearly something was done to you?
Summary: Lifesaving method of taking back your power from anything or anyone, including yourself. It removes judgment, it removes blame, and returns you to living powerfully
I don’t have a lot of opportunities to practice this, but it is clearly needed. When I teach responsibility from the height of “I have this handled” no one seems to be getting it.
So here is my opportunity to teach it from the trenches, as I am going through the struggle myself.
Here is what happened:
Your vocabulary is predictive of your success, happiness, and life enjoyment?
If what we need is a larger vocabulary so we don’t fall into the trap of the mind where everything is the same as everything else, that it makes a lot of sense to start, as soon as you can, building a larger vocabulary.
With every new word a large chunk of the invisible reveals itself… priceless.
Here is the first word:
Jaunty. 1. könnyed and 2. vidám in Hungarian, I have to admit that in the past 37 years since I left Hungary, I haven’t seen anyone being jaunty… Maybe I saw people obnoxiously loud and too much smiling… but jaunty?
Jaunty is having or expressing a lively, cheerful, and self-confident manner, cheerful, cheery, happy, merry, jolly, joyful, gleeful, glad. It is not the forced jolliness of pretense. And it is not the drunken glibness of the party. It is beautiful and it is natural. And I am, occasionally that, but haven’t had a word for it.
When I look at people’s reaction to it, they cheer up and smile with you…
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The myth of “wrong” and its relationship to greed
Summary: As an empath I have access to “stuff” that “normal” humans don’t… like where do you feel greed, or what are the component feelings of greed. What happens when you say “I lay in bed” instead of saying “I lie in bed” etc. This article is specifically about greed and its “mind” component, wrong
When I ask anyone if they are interested in being powerful, producing results, etc. I haven’t found anyone who could honestly say no.
We want to be effective in life, after all when you are not effective, then you are either a nincompoop or a wretch or both.
At the same time we say that, we are unaware that our favorite way of “empowering” ourselves leads to the exact opposite.
You want to raise your vibration. You want to become an Expanding Human Being. You want abundance. You want fun, joy, and love.
Summary: this article started out to be short and sweet and, because it is so important, became really big. The most important things are said in the footnotes, so don’t miss them. The article reveals what it is you need and probably don’t have, will never have, to become an Expanding Human Being. But it is good to know, at least you will know what you can and what you can’t… and stop deluding yourself, and others.
To celebrate that amazon kicked me out, I am offering a 2 for 1 on all my remedies… until further notice. Go to the special site I made….
Kitten spreads rare viral disease, much like smallpox
Your animal, you best (only) friend, your baby, may have nasty surprises for you… like a disease that spreads to humans… like those African plagues that spread from monkeys to human… click to watch the video… It’s autoplay so I put it on the next page.
Turning points: When you decide that mother isn’t coming to rescue you…
Summary: In this article I talk about a turning point that unstucks you from inaction and puts you in the driver’s seat of your life. I use my own example of taking extraordinary (to me) measures where I normally would go depressed instead
It is hard to pinpoint what it takes for someone to actually do something, something out of the ordinary… or for that matter even ordinary, like doing your own work.
In one of my books the “hero” sees the issue, sees the cost of the issue not handled, but until he becomes clear that unless he does something, no one will… and a lot of people will die.