All posts by Sophie

What if we are all mentally ill?


What if being fat, or a loser, hapless, never do well is mental illness? What if mental illness is lying?
I read this article on Medium this morning. The dude, Tim Denning recovered from anxiety of decades, debilitating anxiety by testing himself in situations where he had been anxious, and proved to himself that he wasn’t anxious as a law, as a rule, sometimes he wasn’t.

So he asked himself two questions: What if mental illness is lying? What if mental illness is simply conditioned thinking?

These two questions changed his reality.
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Debunking two myths that lead you to no success and misery: from goal to context


Most articles just flow out of me… this one just didn’t want to flow.

Why?

My guess is that this article may be the most damaging to the current status quo, current success myths that keeps people that follow the common knowledge stuck in their misery.

My second guess is that it’s because I myself am just now going through the process of liberating myself fully from this common knowledge.

With transformation, with success, with raising your vibration, there is no way around hard stuff, only through it.  The shortcut leads through the stuff… Said in another way: the shortcut is not an easy way, it is the hardest, emotionally, existentially, because there is no easy way… so if you were looking for an easy way, please leave now.

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Marker feelings


All emotions are created by words… and therefore we can call all emotions marker feelings.

Real feelings are through our sensory organs, and their purpose is to inform us about our outside and inside reality, so we can do what we need to do to be well.

Marker feelings create first a feeling and then an interpretation of that feeling… and we call that an emotion.

As an empath I feel what you feel, but what emotion you call it depends on your interpretation of the feeling… all interpretations are words…

For example, your pressure in your stomach, depending on your history, can indicate fear, dread, resistance, or many other emotions…
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How old are you being? What is the age of your behavior? What is your emotional age?


The human mind is a pattern seeking, pattern interpreting machine. Yet very few people ever pay attention to the patterns.

One of the patterns they would notice, if they paid attention, is this distinction: the age of the behavior, and the age of sayings… the age of the reaction.

Unless something is pointed out, people look but they don’t see. This includes patterns.

The few people that pay attention to patterns have a lot to tell you about you, and about the people you interact with… by the patterns of their behavior and the patterns of their speaking.

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What you don’t know can really hurt you


Today I learned something about myself, and at the same time I learned something about transformation that until now was only theory for me.

As you know, the absolute basic step in transformation is to see and accept that you don’t know everything, that some of the things that you know are not true, and that most of the things that you don’t know are totally in your blind spot, so you don’t even know they are there.

You may also know, theoretically, that all power, all transformation comes from getting a sudden glimpse at what was in your blind spot.

In driving, if you are lucky, the card hiding in your blind spot will honk when you want to change lanes. Or you get lucky because you notice it before you cause a crash.

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How can YOU connect to YOUR Soul? And when you do, what do you ask for? Are you eating soup with a fork?


What is the Soul? Where is the seat of the Soul? How can YOU connect to YOUR Soul? What does the Soul do?

Before I can talk to you about the Soul I need to take a detour to explain something:

I live like a hermit. I go out once a week on a set route: chiropractor, mail box, grocery store one and two, bank, and back home. I don’t drive, I have a driver.

Why am I doing this? So I can devote my whole life to my life’s purpose: Living on the edge, generating distinctions of transformation for humankind.

Now, doesn’t that sound like a contradiction? it actually seems like I am not living at all, let alone on the edge… lol.

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The tyranny of the pursuit of happiness


More books are sold on happiness than maybe even on dieting… especially because 98% diet books’ hidden attraction is happiness.

Weird, eh?

I have read my share of the books on happiness, of all kinds of psychologies, philosophies, and just inane silliness in articles, TED talks, youtube videos…

In my humble opinion no one is willing to shout out that the emperor is naked. that our desire for happiness is what causes this sea of unhappiness we are all swimming in.
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Should you be on Facebook? Does it raise your vibration?


Every once in a while I check my facebook page. I have little hopes that I will get anyone from there purchase anything from me…

Today I got an email from Facebook that one of my last posts, The Grand Delusion article gets shared more than my other posts, and so I should throw some money at it, so they show it more than just about 2% of my members… lol. 2%…

OK, I’ll bite, I thought and said, ok promote it for 20 dollars. A few hours later I got another email:

“One or more of the posts you promoted don’t meet our guidelines and have been disapproved.

Your ad wasn’t approved because it uses profane, vulgar, or threatening language, or insults, harasses, or demeans people, or addresses age, gender, race, physical condition, sexual preference, or generates high negative feedback.”

I had to laugh. I never thought about myself that way, but I mean to defame products that earned their fame by defrauding, misleading people. And I bet that those product owners, teaches, healers, consider my articles insults… harasses, and such. I guess, unintentionally…

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Transform your relationship to money… Currently it is unrequited love… or maybe you are a jilted lover?


Your relationship to money is much like your relationship to love… Your personality, timid, have given up, resigned, cynical, taking it for granted, ungrateful, forceful, trying to hold onto, possessive, greedy, jealous is running your whole life, but especially these two areas, love and money. And your current reality in those two “arenas” is probably ugly.
This article and the Money-Course it announces has been long in the waiting. I’ve known for a long time that everything ANYONE is teaching on the market nowadays is bs… but I myself didn’t know what would make a difference… so I was waiting, and working on my own money issues in the meantime. I had a breakthrough this past week… and thus I got ready to write this article
Here is an email exchange from this morning, abbreviated:
Customer: What is my vibration?
My answer: Your vibration is 120. I recommend the Heaven on Earth or the HOE Long range to raise your vibration to the level where my activators can work for you…

Customer goes and buys the Effortless Abundance… ignoring my recommendation.

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How visualization can help, but you need to know what to visualize


In my previous post I stumbled on something I myself didn’t know: how to use visualization that is not woo-woo.

This discovery shows something really interesting, and maybe important.

A number of years ago I bought some programs from the Maxwell Maltz and the Psycho-Cybernetics foundation(?)

I read the books, and they made sense. And yet: I wasn’t ready to do any of the exercises in the programs. Why? Well, let us look.

Psycho-Cybernetics talks about improving your self-image, and most of the exercises are about that. For anyone to be willing to invest the time and energy to do the exercises, one must see that they have a self-image problem (I did not see that) and also must see what are the actions that one can’t or won’t do, because it is so new, or scary, or complicated.

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