On Saturday, January 3rd, at exactly 5:42 pm my nose started to bleed. By the time I grabbed something to hold to my nose I was soaked in blood. Red, thick, beautiful blood. Scary. My inner eyes projected a scenario: me, on the floor, dead, in a pool of blood.
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The core influence exercise of Frank Kern
This post is a summary of the presentation of Frank Kern about Core Influence.
This is really powerful EXERCISE for everyone. It will definitely change the way of you relate to yourself and your life.
What is your Core Influence?
When you interface with “your crowd” core to core… heart to heart, and this is what you want them to do… interface with you heart to heart… If you do that they will do almost anything.
How to make lots of people do almost anything
There are 2 “easy” steps:
Know what you REALLY want and who you REALLY are.
Know what your crowd REALLY wants and who they REALLY are.
Most of the people have two versions of themselves. The identity they walk around in every day (it’s called the Shell Identity) and the identity they really WANT (that would be the core identity and is considered the TRUE identity).
So what is core influence?
Most influence is done on the surface. That means I speak to you, you hear my words… and your brain uses logic to comply or not. Your response is based on logic and emotion. That would be a surface level or head-to-head connection.
But there is also the CORE level to communicate. In this case, your real self speaks to another’s real self. So the number one job is to find your real self.
With proper guidance, the proper inquiry, your “subconscious” will create a new CORE identity for you and this identity is what will speak to your crowd on a CORE level. And when you identify the CORE identity of your crowd and can communicate with it, you will have much more power and influence than you ever thought is possible!
Discover your CORE identity
Our deepest real desires give us clues about our core identity. For example why are you here reading this blog post?
Maybe you want to make more money…. but why do you want to make more money?
This exercise can immediately give you focus, direction, and it can literally lead to replacing your shell identity with the REAL you!
When you are able to communicate from this core place, you are centered, stable and focused.
This total clarity magnetically attracts “matches” and causes you to be exponentially more persuasive. Plus, you just might stumble into a new and better reality:
Before doing this exercise, Frank had thoughts about Porsches, Ferraris, Private Jets, time freedom….
But this attracted “wrong” customers, built the “wrong” business, sabotaged money making opportunities… made him buying things with his money and then worried about the things…
After the exercise, he got rid of the non-fun businesses, the non-fun customers and he got paid a fortune to make fun videos for his friends and help them get rich by helping others… sounds better, right?
Now before we begin you need to be aware of the following:
Goals and Things are irrelevant! Setting goals and wanting things creates an internal s
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Raising your vibration happens through doing things
Raising your vibration happens through doing things that you wouldn’t do without the intention to raise your vibration.
Coaching is making you do what you need to do, but don’t want to, that will get you what you desire.
Often any deviation from the normal, the accepted, the habitual, the regular, the easy, the socially acceptable is all you need to open up and allow you to glimpse at dormant capacities. Or alternatively see your need for capacities that you don’t have but could start to desire.
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Heaven and Hell… Heaven on Earth… Can you get to heaven while living on earth?
Heaven and Hell… Heaven on Earth… Can you get to heaven while living on earth?
Let me start with a story from my favorite novel, The Journeys of Socrates:
…a proud and hot-tempered young samurai who routinely cut down any peasant who gave the least offense. In those days, samurai were a law unto themselves, and such behavior was accepted according to custom.
But one day, after another killing, as he cleaned the blood from his blade and returned it to his scabbard, the young samurai began to worry that the gods might disapprove of his actions and send him to a hellish realm. Desirous to know about eternity, he visited the humble abode of a Zen master named Kanzaki. With expected courtesy, the samurai removed his razor-sharp katana (sword) and set it alongside him, bowed deeply, and said, “Please tell me of heaven and hell!”
The invisible components of success: two case studies
You cannot talk butterfly language… unless… Also: Lies by omission, lies by commission… are you a liar?
Last night I was reminded how my nights used to be before I discovered Source energies. Hellish…
I am reading a book from someone, I still haven’t decided if I want to name that someone… or not.
Why? Because I am irate… so angry and envious… I am afraid to let it all out…
But I have to start releasing this tension somehow.
I continued this conversation with my Sunday morning buddy… if you want to hear the conversation, and how he transformed as a result of our calls, here is a link to buy the call
Single Sunday Call
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Your current core identity. Is it serving you well?
Your current core identity. How to find it, how to build a better one?
I have written in a previous post that I discovered that my hidden identity is ‘worthless piece of junk = unwanted’. I use the word junk, because this expression is a translation from my native Hungarian. In the original the expression is closer to ‘nothing’ than anything, by the way. But in English, I am afraid, that won’t communicate. ‘I am nothing’, does it communicate? It doesn’t seem to have the same emotional impact on me…
From time to time I notice it ‘informing my mood, informing my actions.’
I found a blog that I enjoy reading. The writer of the blog is intelligent, inventive, and although we have a different base world view (he prays, I don’t) I like his blog a lot. I researched him this morning. All the pictures on his blog are white folks… turns out he is a good looking Black guy from Florida.
Hm. What must be his ‘core’ identity that he won’t show his face on his blog?
All you can do is enough. But are you doing all you can do?
It is what it is
The hardest thing for anyone is to allow things to be the way they are and allow people to be the way they are, without loss of respect, without calling it or calling them wrong.
I have had to deal with that for at least 40 years… But I think I finally can.
I realized the vast differences in my students in the 67 step coaching program. I realized that each and every one of them are on the level they are. Their level of intelligence, their level of awareness, their level of education, their knowledge, their willingness.
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How do you squash Life Force so you are never really well?
Well Being, Aliveness, Energy, Inspiration, Life Force: How do you squash them so you are never really well?
About 50% of my site’s new visitors come in search of a miracle way to get well.
Another 30% come to find a way to love and the good feelings it gives you. Mostly they were disappointed in Christie Marie Sheldon, the ‘love-or- above’ lady I write about.
The rest come to learn about muscle testing, vibration, and other stuff…
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What if you only have 7 capacities? Or 8… or even 9?
The currency of life are capacities and distinctions.
The less capacities you have the closer you are to the bottom.
What? The bottom of what?
The bottom of the power pyramid. Where personal power, personal authority is the currency.
Asking what those capacities are, those seven is a little dumb, but just think about it.
So what does everyone who went to school has to have as capacity? Reading, using language, i.e. writing and speaking, adding and subtracting numbers, recognizing faces, smells, sounds, telling the time, basic stuff.
You may be able to cook.
You may be able to clean.
And of course, you may be able drive…
But these are not really capacities: they use capacities, but they are complex activities. Not VERY complex, and yet, complex nevertheless.
If you look, parents who take their children to play soccer or sports strengthen the base capacities, but don’t add any new capacities. Especially if the parent chauffeurs the child to those activities.
On the other hand intelligent parents enroll their children in extracurricular activities, activities that activate capacities beyond the base capacities.
Spiritual capacities… DNA capacities. They are beyond those base 7-8-9.
Is desire really the Everyman’s Superpower?
I don’t remember why, but I signed up to Simpleology, Mark Joyner’s program.
He created a new comic strip, the everyman’s superpower, and, of course, sold it with the same thing he advocates in the comic strip: desire.
Desire, what YOU know as desire, is a lower self vibration, fueled by greed, sexual energy, hunger, anger, vengeance, jealousy, anger… not something you want a lot of.
And even though it is a strong energy, and it may take you to success in some areas, it is destructive of who you are as a person, who you are as a higher consciousness specimen of the species.
I should already be used to it!
“Source”, or whatever it is I am talking to all day, is steering me to do work I didn’t intend to do: experience, test, fall flat on my face, half-kill myself or my business or my relationships.
OK, here is the havoc I have wreaked as a result of this “steering”…
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