Quantum Jumping
Quantum Jumping is a technique. Burt Goldman calls it a visualization technique, but I call it a connect to all-of-it, a confer with all-of-it technique. A technique to ask a question of an alternative self of yourself, that has chosen a different path than the one you are on… a more rewarding path. I don’t believe in the subconscious mind… by the way.
There are three good things about this program:
Sometimes I have the good fortune to watch other business people bet on something and not get the result they hoped to get.
Most of the time you have no idea what someone wants… so this is a gift.
Life isn’t a series of winning bets… Life is a series of losing bets that teach you something if you are willing to learn.
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I am a movie buff.
When I was 19, question #40 was ‘movies’ on my high school final exam (in Hungary). I’d always loved movies but I didn’t think I could talk about movies in general, so the day before the oral exams I read a book by a Hungarian filmmaker on movie making. I pulled question #40 at the orals.
After 40 minutes the 3 examiners said that they loved what I said so much that they would want me to talk more, but there were other students waiting…
That statement made my relationship with movies even stronger.
What if the law of attraction is just another way to keep you duped, unthinking, unproductive, and a slave?
Just think with me, please:
I am going to filter the Law of Attraction through my own life, my own experiences instead of giving you made-up examples, ok?
OK, let us track this “conspiracy” I call “the law of attraction” from now on backwards.
Question: who is attracted to the law of attraction? The one that has self-confidence or the one without?
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Lack of humility and fixed mindset are also synonymous.
From time to time I run experiments where I work with one student beyond what they pay for, to test out a methodology I hope will be instructive and will work for most students.
Most people have a fixed mindset.
What does fixed mindset have to do with skills?
Unfortunately a whole lot. Why unfortunately? Because if you have fixed mindset, you somehow, magically, think that skills are innate and you don’t have to learn them.
But neither knowledge, nor skills are innate: humans were designed to be shaped by their own actions primarily. That means: your genetic heritage counts about 10% of who you are, and 90% comes from environmental influences, including your own efforts, attitudes, and actions.
One will say: bummer. Another will say: thank god.
And both will be right…
Without integrity you can’t communicate…
You can talk, but your word has no power. It doesn’t get things done.
Communication is making things happen… making what you intend to happen happen.
Communication is having people want to do what you want them to do. Anything less is not communication. It is merely talking.
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Sometimes having someone to talk to, someone who can listen, instead of trying to solve your problems, is the best thing that can happen to you.
But there are things that are hard to share.
And then, if you are the one who is supposed to be there for others, no one expects you to have problems, or to be there for you. You are alone, and that is that.
All my life I have been the strong one, and no one ever expected me to need them to listen to me. So when I needed someone to listen, I had to pay them. It’s expensive. And now I don’t even trust anyone to just listen… so it’s tough.
Never give up who you are for a we…
I am watching a French movie. I am in the middle, and the music has changed. It is talking about impending doom. My brave, independent, innocent heroine fell for another and I am weeping for her.
I feel that it can lead to no good to give up who we are. Even if we are not anybody special, anybody talented, anybody important.
How your integrity, or the lack of it is one of the keys to your raising your vibration, or not raising it…
Yesterday we had a last session of the course, From Upset to Communication.
The call was nearly all about integrity… or the lack of it.
There are countless ways to violate integrity.
The most significant ways are
lying by commission
lying by omission.
We all tend to know when we actually say something that is a lie…
We rarely know when we lie because we don’t know what is the truth
And we almost never realize that withholding the truth is the worst thing we can do for ourselves. It is a lie by omission.
I have written about, and taught the inner dynamic of perpetration-withhold before, but it seems that it is never enough. I have 3000 articles on this site, and no person can read them all… We are talking about more than 30 full size book worth of articles… that is a lot.
Can the much maligned ego be the answer to your prayers? Praying to get unstuck?
Ego is a strong driving force… if it is encouraged to be so.
It is also a strong anchoring force.
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