A man survived at open sea adrift clinging to a partially deflated volley ball…
What allowed him to survive? It was the hate of the idea of dying.
Yesterday I watched, again, the amazing Danish movie ‘After the wedding’.
The dynamics were played out with good acting and good directing: The one with strongest hate wins. You hate to die, but you hate to leave your loved ones with no father figure more than death.
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I just finished Steven Konkoly’s six book series on Black Flag.
He, in these books, reveals a conspiracy: REBOOT. A lot like MAGA… not an accident.
It is the plan to rebuild America as an autocracy… not a democracy.
It plans to take away the voice of most… even if it takes killing them.
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Imagine you are driving down the highway at 65 miles per hour, and your car’s hood (bonnet?) pops up and suddenly it is all over the windshield.
Now that is some conundrum, wouldn’t you say so? It is a problem asking to be solved? What would you do? Better yet: What could you do? What would be the consequence of the different actions you take?
Now imagine how you sound when you actually do your thinking?
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The lesson that had you learned it you would now live productively and joyfully… And abundantly.
I recently offered my 54th invisible dynamic audio for sale. And I gifted my current intensive course’s participants with it too.
The response was a big thick silence.
Then I found the session we had after that session…
Let me backtrack.
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I have a mirror I got in a course some ten years ago. It is a mirror and on the board it is glued on are the words: ‘I see you’.
Being seen and NOT being judged, being seen for who you are… and neither be adulated, nor be diminished is a rare experience.
People on social media put on lipstick to be seen not as they are, but as others seem to want them… They are afraid to be seen for who they are, for fear of being judged.
But you are your worst judge… aren’t you? You are NOT witnessing yourself and your own life!
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T Harv Eker talks about the inner game and the outer game. He is the multi-multi-multi-multi-multi-millionaire… as he calls himself, so he teaches money. The secret of the millionaire mind… lol.
Most people who come to my site want more money. And they want to, maybe, change their inner money game, but there is no such thing.
Unfortunately working on what you want to change is an ineffective approach to changing it. Working on a relationship never worked. for example.
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As I have said before: I play Freecell, a solitaire, to take me below the visible… all the time.
This morning I did a clever move… a few minutes later I saw that the clever move in fact painted me in a corner.
And that is, surprisingly, true about cleverness. At least if you use the word correctly… a rare phenomenon really… using words correctly.
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What is a distinction? And a definition?
Distinction is at the heart of the matter.
If I ask you what is a human, you can talk for weeks without stopping, and that would be a definition. Everything a human does, feel, aspires for, hopes for, talks about fit well into definition.
But if you look all those, that torrent of words don’t really say the heart of the matter.
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Part 1: the empath
If you have to suffer, make it meaningful. It will hurt less
Empaths have a glitch in their brain, I say, that makes that feel not only their own bad emotions, but others’ as well.
I didn’t know I was an empath until the year 2000. I was 53 years old. And I hadn’t known such a thing existed. I thought what I felt was all mine. And I suffered. For a decade or so I was under doctor’s care, often hospitalized.
I had some indicators I can see with 20/20 hindsight, but I still thought nothing of them.
Whenever, wherever I was around or near horny people, I felt what they felt. Horrible, if you ask me.
And when my doctors wanted to shock me out of my bad state, and I refused treatment, they resorted to send me to the cold showers and that allowed me to feel myself only for a bit… and I was ‘cured’.
Humans feel horrible feelings and I have to feel their feelings.
I have been thinking about this: if you are condemned to suffer, maybe your job is to make it useful so you don’t suffer in vain.
Lots of people have done that… people with horrid diseases, addictions, etc. But they did it AFTER they got rid of the pain…
For an empath there is no getting rid of the pain. But if you don’t train yourself to be a true empath, like a precise instrument. To know how to connect reliably to a person, they it is just vague horrid pain… for no reason. Like my mother’s beatings: I never knew what I did wrong, she never told me. Something I did made her angry and she beat me… What made her angry? I have no idea.
My mother was an empath too… unaware, untrained, unpredictable.
I think being an empath is an aberration… not something that is supposed to be.
If you know that what you feel is another’s feeling they you are not an empath, you are a ‘sensitive’… Empaths feel others’ feelings as their own: anger, despair, grief, for no reason… I have to muscletest if a feeling is mine…
If you learn nothing else: learn to muscletest that. If it is not yours, then you can ignore it.
The body won’t… it will still be stiff. The stress won’t… it will still ravage your body. But your brain, your attention, your mood, and your ability to do life and you’ll free up your energy and ability to do work.
Other extrasensory perception people see and hear things, they say, that I say don’t exist, are not real.
And yet they hallucinate. Imagine. Tell you what you want to hear.
I was duped out of my paycheck by one of those some 57 years ago in Budapest…
One of the challenges of being a true empath is that you feel what is going on in another person’s body, while they may not feel it.
I have a client/student who told me yesterday that all his life he told himself to ignore, block the feelings, so he doesn’t appear weak.
But he has a veritable snowstorm inside… and now he is starting to feel it too.
Feelings, even emotions are guiding…
Part 2: the words
Emotions come from words. All
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People share one major feeling: a sense a danger, a sense that pain or death is coming. We call it fear.
Depending on how someone handles fear is how humanity can ultimately belong to two groups.
We could also look at anger as a divider, but let’s stick with fear first.
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