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He got some last night… yes. But how would you know it?

I have been wondering if I could tell if a person can be trained or not. What would I see that would tell me yes or no?

I watched a little Grantchester on Amazon Prime yesterday. In one of those episodes the vicar gets laid. His pal almost instantly knows.

A few years ago I saw a woman come out of the hotel elevator in Las Vegas. To me she looked like she had always looked, but a man in our group instantly knew she just got laid.

I verified it with her… But how did he know?
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Have the ‘why bother?’ attitude? A Big C symptom

I overslept this morning. Whenever you oversleep, or allow comfort to set in, something sinister happens in the invisible.

Your brain takes your behavior as an instruction that you want to practice for death.

You could call it hibernation, but it is only hibernation if that is what you meant to do. Otherwise it is the state where there is no future.

The first signs are hopelessness. There is no hope. There is no future. Just blah.
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Hear the soul scrambling… crazy world…

As I am running with this new insight that the culprit of misery and self-destructive behavior is the soul’s doing I am starting to see some aspects I didn’t see yesterday.

I said it yesterday, that the words that urge you on resulting in some damage… often resulting big damage is the shoulds.

It feels like someone inside is guiding you… guiding your actions. So if you don’t have the distinction that all shoulds come from the soul, its dark side, you can spend your whole life being moved by these shoulds…
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Turning Points: Queen to Play… movie scripts

Turning Points: Queen to Play
Lots of movies are based on a script of turning points. Of course: a dramatic turning point is a really great story.

But few of the turning points are of any use for the viewer because you cannot see, cannot recognize the dynamic of the turning point. No distinction…

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Part 3: Create a turning point by commitment

Turning Points Part 3: Control your attention
You can adapt declarations that you find… and you see that living consistent with that declaration would be consistent with living according to the Original Design.

What aspect of the Original Design? The aspect that says: you are made of the same thinking substance as Source itself is made of. You have the same kind of will Source has.
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Causing human evolution… A manifesto of sorts

As I got further and further writing this article, I realized that what I am writing is some sort of manifesto. What we are doing here, what we aim to accomplish.

All the illustrations of manifestos I didn’t examine. They can be good, bad, or neutral. They are just illustrations. Don’t get your panties in a bunch…

OK, here is the article:
Whatever is preventing you from following instructions is your racket
Your soul correction, in effect, is a racket.
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Turning Points Part 2: commit to living life at life’s terms

Turning Points Part 2
In the movie, The Piano, there seem to be several turning points. The main character (Helen Hunt) is married off to New Zealand. There she falls in love with a laborer, employee of her husband. Seeming turning points.
Why are these not real turning points?
We will only be dealing with created, conscious, turning points, not when life changes or we change, but it’s not conscious. These are moments when we are unusually strongly connected to Life, and thus can cause our lives to turn instead of continuing down the same unproductive path.
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Why do some people make millions, but not you?

Why are some people happy, but not you?
Why are some people successful, but not you?

This article could create a turning point for you and your life… By using the method I teach here.
Realizing value is, maybe, the fundamental distinction that is missing.
What does it mean: realize the value of something.

Realize means: make it real. It is a real thing.

For example, a blueprint, the plans of a house have no value. Only when the house is built according to the blueprint does.
An idea has no value. An insight has no value, until it is realized.
So is an activator. It has no value until the person starts doing the activity that it enables.

So is any teaching.

You may have been in a situation where you were in a class with many others. One of those ran with an idea and made a lot of money or made a lot of something with it, while you did nothing.

The difference between people is what they do with what they get.

Taking something from mere words, mere information to something that has value, is a process.

But why don’t you?
You don’t see value. Value is a distinction. Having examples of value doesn’t mean you have the distinction.
Examples do not add up to a distinction.

If you don’t see the value that can be created with a process, you won’t go for it.

Driving is not a value. But driving people where they want to get to, at short notice, in a clean car is. That is the value UBER realizes. They built a system,a process for it, and that is what a company is about. A system for delivering the realized value.
Knowing anything is not value… yet.
Unless the value is realized, i.e. there is a construct to provide it to those who want exactly that value, no value was realized.

Unless you see value, you can’t realize it.

But why wouldn’t see value? The value that can be created for yourself? For the future? With a process?

Seeing value does not equal appreciation. Seeing value is seeing that with a process it can deliver value.

So the seeing value is seeing the potential of something.

Through providing the vehicle. Building if you need to.

Sales presentations, whether they are in writing, audio, or video, talk about the realized value. the potential. And you buy the stuff to get it, not realizing that you need to build the bridge.

A simple example, in a joke, is the dude who prays to his god to let him win the lottery. After years of this, one night, during his prayer, he hears a voice that says: I can only help you win the lottery if you buy a ticket, so will you?
That dude is you.
You want value but you don’t see what it is that YOU need to provide so you can get what you want: that you need to realize the value.

Raw ingredients in the kitchen are unrealized value. They become value when you PREPARE something with them that is enjoyable, nourishing, and EATEN.

But why wouldn’t you see the value that can be created by you? Why can’t you have the vision? That is the question.

Because
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Commerce is king… and you are a peon, or maybe a rook.

Judge Kenesaw Mountain Landis handing out a sentence to an old bank robber
’30 years’
‘Your honor, I’m 75 years old, I don’t have 30 years to serve’
‘Then do the best you can’
This joke pretty accurately summarizes our lives.

The odds are not on our sides to live out our lives fully.

I could say ‘by design’, but that would not be accurate.

What the heck am I talking about? About the conflict between you and commerce…
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Why do you need humility to learn anything? Skills, habits

Learning is humbling. Especially humbling is learning about yourself, and learning about your need to change.

You have a Precious ‘I’. Whether you believe it or not, whether you know it or not, the precious ‘I’ is in every single person.

And your precious I wants to have and retain the self-image unchanged, the self-image that says you know everything. That you are the center of the Universe. You are special. And it wants to keep the self-image where it is superior. Where you are, therefore, OK.

It considers anything and everything less that that ‘not OK’, and it fights it.
It is easier to see it on others than on yourself.
Every learning means, logically, that you didn’t know something.

For example, you don’t know and therefore you can’t tell if your cells are dehydrated or not. You can’t tell if you have DNA capacities on or off… Or that you think yourself smarter than you are.

You didn’t know you had narrow cone of vision.
You didn’t know that you were all about yourself…

You don’t know, who cares? You have never made any moves to learn it, find out, research… you really don’t care that you don’t know. But when someone else says that you don’t know something, it is bruising, offensive, and insulting to your Precious ‘I’.

You may call yourself names. You may call some family member names. But when someone else says that same thing… you are ready to kill them. That is the Precious ‘I’ that wants to kill them, not you.

You are not your Precious ‘I’. You HAVE the Precious ‘I’. But if you think you are that Precious ‘I’, then you’ll react.

Depending on the personality of the individual, depending on your your personality, on your soul correction, depending on the number of predatory genes you have active in your DNA, your Precious ‘I’ will react and the reaction will be highly predictable.
Large variations in reaction

My personality is to retreat. Retreat and lick my wounds. To examine what happened. To write an article about it, and get over it. Get over it as fast as I possibly can. And to glean as many insights from it as I can get. That is my Jewish personality. Learn from mistakes. Nor by making rules… no. By REALLY seeing what happened. Bringing awareness to it. And taking responsibility for it. Fully.

I am not here to fight.

I don’t want, don’t like animosity. I am more on the sheep-side. My before adjustment predatory genes count showed: 0. So I had none of those genes active.

Another person with a high predatory genes count may argue, bite, mock, and want to reduce you to nothing… Whether they do it publicly or not will be also part of their nature.

There are probably countless variations.
Learning is humbling, because learning says: you didn’t know. And for many people the idea that they don’t know something is offensive.
The Precious ‘I’ prides itself in knowing everything it needs to know. And if and when it finds out that you didn’t know something, it says: Ooooh,
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