Category Archives: The Nature Of Reality

Don’t judge a book by its cover

Quoting from Rob Brezsny:
In the nights to come, I expect you will dream of creatures like fiery monsters, robot warriors, extraterrestrial ghosts, and zombie vampires. But here’s the weird twist: They will be your helpers and friends. They will protect you and fight on your behalf as you defeat your real enemies, who are smiling pretenders wearing white hats. Dreams like this will prepare you well for events in your waking life, where you will get the chance to gain an advantage over fake nice guys who have hurt you or thwarted you.

I am a rough and tumble Hungarian/Israeli/New Yorker.

Most people, especially in the South, California, Canada, and Australia, people think I am a little too rough, to straight forward, bordering on rude and arrogant.

I am your fiery monster from the above quote. I fight on your side, I fight on your behalf.

Your real enemies are the white robed, white hat donning, smiling pretenders.

How do you know I am honest? You don’t. How do you know I am telling the truth? You don’t.

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I watched the second season of Goliath on Amazon yesterday…

I watched the second season of Goliath on Amazon yesterday.

It was a huge let-down. Not because it was bad, but because it was truthful.

We have been acclimated, we have been trained, to expect that the good will always win. The other people can fight your fight. That there is hope.

There is no hope.

I could have expected that from Billy Bob Thornton, after his Sling blade movie. But I was still jarred awake.

And if I needed to be jarred awake, you doubly, triply need to be jarred awake.

Your understanding of the world, your world view has handed your life, your control, over to others… who use it to enrich themselves.

Your accurate vocabulary is so low partially because you are taught to think positive, you are taught to close your eyes instead of looking at reality.
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Can you eliminate beliefs?

Is there such a thing as a belief? Are beliefs real?

Yes and no. In reality? no such thing as a belief. Belief is a mind construct.

So what is holding you back in life if not beliefs?

In my previous article I talk about the backdrop, and that the backdrop is made up of all the things you say, all the things you heard/read that you accepted, and surprisingly also all the things you have resisted.

Why are things you resisted there? Because things you don’t consider true or facts: you don’t resist.

If I told you that you were a zebra, you would not resist. But if I tell you you are a loser, or worthless, or stupid… you’ll resist… because they could be true… what if it’s true? and now it is part of your backdrop.
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Everyone thinks they are smarter than you… but why? And how can you avoid that trap so you can start having some results in your life?

I came to my computer this morning not having an idea what article to write.

So I started to watch a few videos on youtube I lined up, after I saw that one of my students learned “precession” from one of the videos I published, while it went way over my head.

Time to recap…

So I watched the video, and muscle tested. It tested “not true” for me. One of my favorite people, (an evolutionary event in humanity’s history, according to Buckminster Fuller…) Marshall Thurber. Zero truth value. Wow… let me watch a few more Marshall Thurber videos…

So I did. It’s about 8 am now, and I have been at it for almost three hours.

I learned a lot.

Here are some of the things I learned:
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Unless you know what you learned, you didn’t learn anything

The last joke I heard before I left Hungary has stayed with me… and it’s very apropos today

Here is the joke: What are the two paths for Hungarian intelligentsia?

Answer: alcoholism. The other path is impenetrable…, in practice there is no second path.

This article is about humans, about you. And it tries to establish that in fact it’s possible to penetrate a second path… an evolutionary path, to become a human being, even if 99.5% of humanity isn’t interested in that path.

So let’s see how that applies to how it is today…

There are two schools of thought: the two paths… You really either choose the one or the other. There is no compromise…
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Does life behave like a kayak or an automobile?

As I was answering a coaching student’s post on my Reclaim your life program, I had an insight.

The model you use to change your life, to make decision, to live your life is the model of the automobile.

Narrow streets, you make right angle turns, the motive power in the engine obeys your steering.

Life doesn’t work like an automobile. Life is a lot more like kayaking.

The way you adjust your direction is with tiny shifts of your paddle… no big moves are effective.
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A spiritual practice that can change all the numbers in your Starting Point Measurements

If you’ve bought into the b.s. that thinking good thoughts, happy thoughts, being non-judgmental is good for you, then your vibration is low, but more importantly, your vibration cannot be raised, unless you let go of this b.s.

Let’s turn this baby on its head: if you bought into the b.s. that your thoughts create your reality, and you need to avoid thinking bad thoughts regarding yourself, the world, the future, other people, because it makes you and your life bad… then there is nothing I can ever do for you, unless you change your mind.

Why? Because you refuse to interact with reality, you refuse to base your actions on reality.
Reality is neither good nor bad, it is what it is.

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Why you go for more knowledge, more and more and more…


I just finished reading a book, a NY times bestseller.

In it a scientist discovers two life enhancing treatments: one makes you smarter, the other makes you live longer.

People go crazy to live longer, and don’t care to get smarter.

This is the current reality inside which I am trying to do the work I do: take some people further on the human evolution scale: to human being level.

And people are not interested. I guess they cannot see how much of the drama, trouble, heartache, no success is a result of not seeing, not seeing clearly, or assuming that they already know.

We all walk around thinking that what we see, what we think, what we hear is accurate. That we see reality.

If I asked you if you can see how it is, you would say that of course you do.

Your results argue with your assertion: most of the time you have no idea what is going on. Your eyes, your ears, your mind mislead you.

T Harv Eker, millionaire money teacher was a bumbling serial failure until a millionaire friend of his father could not watch his idiotic moves any more, and took him under his wings.

His training began with this famous words: “When things are not working, there is something that you don’t know.”

I have students who want to grow, make more money, get happier, find a path that they’ll enjoy being on, lead their children to a happier path, get well… all kinds of goals and directions.

None of them has ever asked me: what is it I don’t know, that makes things not working?

None of them. Not even one.

My whole methodology is built upon those famous words… “When things are not working, there is something that you don’t know.”

More often than not, the truth is that “When things are not working, there is something you know that just isn’t so.”

The path of strait (narrow) and narrow.

Everything that is outside of the strait and narrow is part of what you know but just isn’t so.

One could say that the Playground method is methodology to reveal what you know that just isn’t so. This is why it is so effective.

With the removal of every false knowledge your life, your results, your mood, your health, your relationships, and your money improves.

The fastest way to improvement, bar none.

Removing the offending piece makes more difference than adding something to “fix” it.

One of our live-in maids once put too much salt into the food… and tried to correct it with sugar.

That is you… That is your behavior in life.

More, better, different… and ultimately a complicated life with no better results.

No one considers that what they know, what they are sure of, isn’t so.

One of the examples that came up yesterday in the Playground session is the water energizer.

What can be assumed to be so in your system?

1. that the water you use can be energized
2. that the audio is playing
3. that the energetic environment is friendly to Source energy.

Not many moving parts. But there are three ways you
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I made a terrifying discovery today: It is true that you create your life. But why?


I made a terrifying discovery today. The discovery has been long time coming, but today, because the circumstances were so different, I could actually see it. This discovery will change the life of thousands! Guaranteed!

They say that you create your life. It sounds so far-fetched that most people would say: why would anyone create misery, poverty, rape, and death, right?

They never explained to me clearly enough, so I don’t even know if they know the REAL dynamic, my hunch is that maybe the first person that said it did, but not the ones that have been repeating this sentence, like parrots.

So, this is what happened: I was preparing to see a client when suddenly a cap from my front tooth fell into the sink and went down the drain.

I promptly called the client to stop him from coming, I wasn’t going to be toothless… just wasn’t going to be.

I caught him, and he thanked me. I found some tools, took the pipe off the bottom of the sink, found the cap, but now the sink is leaking.

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