The drama triangle… switch up the roles!
The drama triangle is a useful model inside which you can examine, re-live, and heal any conflict.
Conflict is a nice name where what one person/ one company/ one group/ one country’s point of view, self-interest doesn’t agree with some other person’s or group’s self-interest.
It’s normal. But it is doubly normal for children. Small children. A conflict with the parents.
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Raising your vibration happens through doing things that you wouldn’t do without the intention to raise your vibration.
Coaching is making you do what you need to do, but don’t want to, that will get you what you desire.
Often any deviation from the normal, the accepted, the habitual, the regular, the easy, the socially acceptable is all you need to open up and allow you to glimpse at dormant capacities. Or alternatively see your need for capacities that you don’t have but could start to desire.
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yeah, power tools… or power skills?
But beware… these tools are not for everybody. If you are not up to anything, if you have no ambition, nothing to need power tools for, then power tools are not for you. Complacency and power tools don’t go together… OK, I said it.
What is the difference between an article that has ‘ten things to do to have a happy life’ and another article that has ‘power tools for a powerful life’?
Tricky question…
In the hand of a MacGyver a paper clip is a power tool to get out of a jam, or to open a handcuff. But it is not a power tool for a powerful life.
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Now that a bunch of you have bought my Secret Weapon, the Big Bundle of energies The purpose of this article is to announce the WEBINAR I am forced to do to let you feel the energy and teach you to use it correctly.
So, announcing the Big Bundle webinar.
Without listening you don’t hear. You don’t have good questions to ask.
I could be saying I have a billion dollars for you, and you would not hear it.
But listening is staying with what you are listening to, and is not over-talking it, or allowing something to grab your attention and move it to what you are thinking about.
Listening is also allowing what is said to remain what was said…
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What you don’t know that you don’t know
If you are like me at any point you think that what you know is how it is. And that makes you stuck.
Here is what happened that woke me up from this seductive illusion that what I know is so.
I have been fascinated with nut butters. OK… nothing fancy in that…
I bought a machine to make nut butters, and it was a tedious job: 90% of the time was scraping the wall of the bowl… or the machine would run as if it were empty.
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What would put you into the vibration of money? Or why are you repelling money?
Summary: 90% of what keeps you in money, or what repels money from you are you attitudes towards people, including yourself.
It is not vibration, per se… but people feel it. And they refuse to give you money.
The solution is to develop attitudes more conducive, more attractive, more inviting to money.
Most of my courses are about that… Changing your attitudes…
The article below may be too scholarly for most of you…
What is blocking your ability to abundance? To making money, to accepting money, to do things worth money?
I’ll do this workshop until I am satisfied that the method the way I teach it works…
We had results across the board: some came away moved to tears, some came away and quit coaching… Why? It brings up what you have been desperately trying to hide.
I’ll do the course and refine it and tweak it and mold it, until it works for every participant. Why? I like challenges, and I definitely finish what I start… lol.
When stuff happens, you go to fear, anxiety, trepidation, anger, frustration… you lose your power. This article is about how to pull back your powers with the correct use of correct language… It is not affirmation, afformations, positive thinking, visualization, etc… those, in my experience, have no real effect, they only have pseudo effect.
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It’s been stormy here. Lots of rain. The other night a warning went out: a tornado was poised to touch down in Central New York: not a tornado area.
Reality.
Nothing is wrong: as long as reality works the way reality works, all is well… even if it rains on your parade, even if you hate doing your morning walk trudging through mud, even if you are not prepared like I wasn’t.
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