I have scheduled the first session of the Playground: It is never tool late to have a happy childhood.
If you are interested, please check out the page here: https://offers.by-sophie.com/playground
That is the program I first run in 1988, that had a 100% of the participants produce extraordinary and unpredictable growth in their lives.
Check it out.
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I am morphing the free webinar series into a more advanced topic. Until now we’ve been looking at your context, we examined what context you could invent to alter your life. But where people have been stumbling is this: they weren’t able to live by the new context, no matter how right it was for them.
The past got into their eyes.
What is the past? We could say all the things that happened to you, but we would be wrong.
Life is like a waterfall. It is exhilarating when you are in it, crushes you when you get in the way.
Life, your life, is the way it is… you have what you have, you do what you do, it looks the way it looks.
The problem is not with life, not even with your life. The problem is with the questions that you ask.
In my free webinars we list areas of our lives that don’t work well. When we look, there is one common denominator in all of the student’s issues, and that is the questions that they ask.
We, humanity, think that questions are just questions, and the don’t make much of a difference.
The truth is, that the question you ask will be more important than the answers you seek.
With regards to our lives, we mostly ask why questions. Why am I the way I am, why can’t I…? Why doesn’t he love me? Why do I procrastinate? Why don’t I love my life?
The biggest price Positive Thinking junkies pay is this:
You can only have power in any situation if you are looking at what is so!
Why do I call positive thinkers junkies? Simple: they are, just like heroin addicts, unable to deal with the momentary feeling bad about anything, they need an escape from reality, at the expense of their life, their health, their relationships, their money.
When you are a positive thinker, your default context is that reality is just plain should not be the way it is.
For you it’s wrong, for me it is just what’s so… you are powerless, I am powerful.
Finding the silver lining is not available to you, until you see the reality of the situation. For example, yesterday I screwed up something and lost a lot of money. I saw what I did, I appreciated that this wasn’t a good time to lose money, and then I looked for a silver lining: it was a learning experience.
I always return to this two moments in my life. Seemingly insignificant moments, but turning points nevertheless.
The first one was when I saw a poster in a chiropractor’s office saying something like this: “In order to get to the next level, you need to give up who you have become.”
And the second was a poster with a dark sky with a tiny sliver of light showing through. The words said: turn your face to the light…
The first one is the principle of transformation: everything you are, everything you know is in your way of having what you want, what you are striving for. You need to give it up. Painful, frightening, but it’s so.
The second one is the idea of escape. Clinging to hope, clinging to “there is help”, clinging to being an effect, never a cause. The opposite of power, the opposite of transformation, the essence of positive thinking: the biggest enemy you have ever nurtured on your chest.
First off… I have been getting emails that people could not sign up. So here is the correct link… if that’s you.
What’s the truth about you? – A workshop
Tuesday, November 20 9-11 pm EST
Update: want me to run this workshop again? Just ask for it. I love doing it…
Second: There is a new way to connect. The connection is much deeper… there is one more difference: it is much less mechanical than the previous method, so most people will need to practice getting out of their minds for a while before they can connect for any longer than five seconds.
The calls are free… https://www.yourvibration.com/drill to register
I recommend that you start as soon as you can. My next course, the Activate Divinity Course will not work unless you can stay connected for at least five minutes…
I have come up with a dirt cheap way to get into that course where you have a chance to re-integrate your abandoned “fragments” to become whole and complete again. Invulnerable, impervious, joyful, calm and serene…
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Why is it that most people, you, who believe in the Law of Attraction actually practice how to repel people and repel what you want?
99% of all people believe in the law of attraction… or some version of it…
People write to me all the time, asking me for something. They want something for nothing. Obviously they are adherents of the Law of Attraction: the law seems to be saying to the: you can attract to yourself things you want by just wanting them. Ask and it is given… or something of that sort. Or if you really desire it… blah blah blah.
I have a few secrets for you: the world doesn’t operate that way. In fact, the world operates closer to what Charlie Munger says: If you want to get what you want, you need to deserve what you want. Continue reading Are you attracting or are you repelling? That is the question…
In yesterday’s Talk-to-me webinar –> one of the things that came up, thank you Baheej, was the idea that you need to be looking at your shortcomings, gaffes, and mistakes with kind eyes.
We all have them, but depending on your attitude towards them they mean that you are no good, they mean that you need to explain, apologize, lie, attack, avoid responsibility, or they mean that you made a blunder… no big deal.
I recommend a lighthearted approach to mistakes. I call it “play with your kaka”, whatever you can play with, you don’t hate.
Now, admittedly, I still have a few things I have done in my life I haven’t been able to play with, or bring a kind eye to… but I am working on it.
Your self-growth depends on your ability to laugh at yourself and take yourself less seriously. Continue reading Enlighten yourself… as often as you can
Why is there such a sharp and irreconcilable difference between the right and the left in the world? The answer is in the invisible realm of reality…
There are many things I can measure in a human… while I am connected to Source. The language between Source )aka All-Knowledge, or the Zero point field) is muscle testing. It has a limited vocabulary: yes, no, and somewhat yes and somewhat no. And an occasional ‘I don’t know’
I connect to the person, and I connect to Source. So Source is connected to the person through me. And then I ask questions…
Source can only know things that are non-physical… Why? Because Source wasn’t connected to the person before I connected to them. Continue reading Nature or nurture? Are you born a republican or a democrat, a right wing or left wing person?
If you ever decided that you wanted to live your life in a particular way, successful, joyful, productive, fulfilling, you would want to CHOOSE a world view –>, a world view that COULD create the perfect foundation for that type of life, the life of your choosing.
But you never decided… and you never chose. You have a worldview, or maybe a worldview has you…
World view is a particular interpretation of life, of creation, of power, of choice, of freedom. Of other people, of nature. Of what is important and what isn’t. Of what is agreed upon and what isn’t.
Depending on the world view, only certain actions and certain things can be present. It’s like a stage in a play: you can’t put there stuff that doesn’t belong. That doesn’t have a role… On the stage, if there is a gun there, you can be sure it will be used during the story. I read that somewhere about Chekhov’s plays… Continue reading World View: are you trying to build a life on a foundation of misery?
