Monthly Archives: November 2021

Communication, Low vibration - high vibration

Readers ask… about negotiation, enrollment, differences of opinion, arguments

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Dear Sophie:

I just watched this interview with the author of “Never Split the Difference.” It’s a book about negotiation techniques. The author is a former FBI hostage negotiator. I found it quite intriguing. My head was spinning just trying to keep up with the conversation. Afterwards, I was left with very mixed feelings. It seemed to me that my desire to learn more about these techniques was rooted in greed and a sense of wanting to learn in order to win or manipulate. Whatever the feeling, I am not comfortable with it; it was not a pure feeling. I have a different idea about communication, one having to do with connection, more along the lines of Steven Covey, ” Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood,” and Dale Carnegie, and the Communication Course. Maybe I misread the author (without having read the book). Maybe my aversion to learning negotiating techniques is related to my resistance to A is A. I am curious to know the truth value of the material and the intention behind it.

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67 step Coaching, Low vibration - high vibration, Original Design - DNA, Spiritual Practice

The Law of 33%, or why you resist this as if your life depended on it?

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One of the brilliant ideas from the 67 steps that hardly anyone considers as applying to them is the idea of spending at least one third of their discretionary time in the company of people who are ahead of them. Preferably by 20 years of experience and wisdom and results in a certain area of life.

These people will be able to teach you something, and you will feel small, ignorant, and maybe even worthless.

But you’ll have a chance to learn something useful.

Instead people prefer spending time with ignorant people they can feel smarter than. This is one of the main reasons you can continue feeling a lot more valuable than you actually are.

In my article “democratic” says more about this…

One of my students in the 67 steps coaching decided to start listening to me. That was a huge step for him… This happened after a whole year of pretending that he did in fact listen to me.

As a result he observed his environment and found that his boss is one of those 20 years ahead of him guys.

He went and talked to him.
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Low vibration - high vibration

There are two ways to hear anything Part 2. What was said and what you heard…

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I have been observing people’s behavior in seminars, coaching calls, and even one-on-one conversations.

They are rarely hearing what you are saying.

Do what do they do?

1. they get hooked on something you said, and now they are in their minds, having a totally different conversation… a conversation wholly independent from what you are talking about.
2. they are arguing with you in their heads… don’t agree, don’t like, don’t own.
3. they have checked out… they are as good as asleep.

I have seen this third one in various courses and seminars.

When the topic goes to something that is unconfrontable, difficult, would take courage or intelligence to follow… something that is contrary to their world-view… people check out. They may fall asleep… especially men.
These is the main reason why I rarely offer one-on-one talk type coaching:…

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Low vibration - high vibration

There are two ways to hear anything… part 1. Courage deficiency

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There are two ways to hear anything…

1. through and inside the mind
2. in reality

Hearing, or course, includes reading. Reading is a version of listening. How you read is how you listen…

But even if you manage to hear something outside of the mind, the next step will decide everything.

You are like a dog with a bone. Or a cat with a new food…

You’ll drag that thing you heard into the cave, into the mind, and you compare it with what is there.
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Get unstuck, Low vibration - high vibration

Are you filling your head with ‘just in case’ knowledge while your life is waiting for you to know what to do?

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I woke up this morning. I said the date, out loud, in Hungarian (my last dream before waking up was in Hungarian) and the sound of the words took me to a soul-searching.

I said (in Hungarian), Happy New Year Miss Benshitta… and it hit me, that I would be an old maid, a spinster in Hungary… ugh… would it have forced me to get married and become swallowed up by another’s life?

Had I stayed in Hungary… I probably would have continued working as an architect. I probably would have never done the steps that would have taken me through all the steps one has to take to reach and walk a different path.

I would be unfulfilled, and probably dead.

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Low vibration - high vibration

Who are you that you are? What is the bottom line about you?

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You have a deep seated judgment about yourself. And that is the pivoting point, the linchpin that your life is growing out of.

In 1987, in a Landmark Forum, there was an exercise to drive this deep seated judgment about yourself to the surface. To make the invisible visible.

The question was: Who are you that you are?

I raised my hand and I was called on. I started to ramble about fear of commitment, wanting to remain a student all my life…

The Forum Leader said: Oh, you are a failure!

I set down and didn’t hear another word for the rest of the session.
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Starting Point Measurements

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1. your vibration (1-1000):
2. your overall intelligence, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, body, relationship, etc.:
3. the number of spiritual capacities you have:
4. your soul correction (your machine): https://www.yourvibration.com/sc
5. do you have attachments?
6. the level of your health: %
7. the level of your cell hydration: %
8. your relationship to feedback and instruction:
9. The level of discomfort you are willing to allow w/o trying to fix it. This is your TLB score…
10. The size of your your accurate and active vocabulary: the % of words you use accurately:: %
11. Your about-me score, also the inverted number of humility: %
12. Self-awareness: %
13. Ambition: %
14. Desire: %
15. Degree of inauthenticity/pretense self overall: %
16. Level of integrity 1-100, the relationship between you and you: %
17. how enslaved are you to the Tree of Knowledge? (what percentage of your life is run by memes/untruth?) %
18. do you have a bridge between your precious “I”, who you should be and your actual I? What is your level of delusion %
19. To what degree you have access to your adult capacities %
20. How teachable/how coachable are you? %
21. The level of your overall awareness? %
23. the percentage of time you spend in the mind: %
24. the percentage of input that gets through to you. %
25. How inspired can you become? And what level are you now
26. To what degree you honor your emotions as reality? %
27. What is your cone of vision in percentage of the visible? this tells me whether you can connect the dots… %
28. How much control do you have over your attention? %
29. How many predatory genes do you have?
30. Do you have enough energy to do the work?
31. How lucid are you? i.e. how present, how conscious are you? How much of your intelligence is used in life? %
32. How many pieces of information can your brain hold at the same time?
33. On the flexible-rigid continuum, where are you standing? % rigid
34. Your astuteness measure compared to what YOU can be. %
35. Where are you on the narcissistic scale? %
35. Your curiosity factor %
36. Your little sh*t score %
37. Can you let go of self-concern?
38. Do you have a should or shouldn’t racket?
39. Your motive power (How miserable are you and to what degree you consider it unbearable? % (the higher the number the more motivation [motive power] you have to grow) 30% is the minimum to grow
40. Can you plan long range?
41. Are you outcome dependent? %
42. How many entitlement genes you have on?
43. Do you have your ‘permission’ gene on or off?
44. Responsibility gene?
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Activate Spiritual Capacities, Low vibration - high vibration

Are you intelligent enough to use this tool to change your life?

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There is a tool that you could put in your tool box, and get out of tough spots, conquer every issue, and become a happy, wealthy, fulfilled person… It’s asking different questions… to see different paths.

But neither you, nor myself have been trained in it, so we keep on asking the same questions and end up with the same miserable life…
How do you develop the capacity to ask intelligent questions that also alter your reality?
Yesterday I had a long conversation with one of my students. I suddenly had an insight into soul correction, that had been hidden from my view before.

How did I get to that insight? I asked different questions.
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Talk Back To Me

How do I measure vibration?

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If you’ve read anything on my site, you know that

am an empath and I can connect to you, or anyone who is sufficiently defined and exists, and I reliably I feel you/them, stronger than I feel myself
I connect to Source, whatever that is, and therefore I am out of my own mind
I muscle test your vibration while I am connected both to you and to Source.

Other than that, it is always an intelligent choice to watch my videos and read my articles.
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