What is the opposite of entitled?

Every generation is more entitled than the previous one. Why? Let me explain…
If appreciative is the opposite of entitled… does that mean that all those people who are not appreciative are entitled?

Entitled is a worldview. It is a ground-of-being phenomenon, invisible, like the floor. An unexamined truth. To you. But for the other, it is quite obvious…

So how do you know that you are not appreciative? that you are entitled?

This is how:

Even when you thank someone, they frown…
You may even be diligent in thanking someone, you may even feel a stab of thankfulness, but those thanks are the waves on the waters, not the bottom of the sea… The bottom of your sea is entitlement.

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What the heck is the worth a damn factor, what is yours, and how do you raise it?


My declared purpose is: I work to raise the truth value of people’s world view and consequently raise their vibration. This article is, seemingly, not about truth value and not about vibration… it is about your worth a damn factor and your happiness… Seemingly…

Here is a world view that is very frequent, and very deadly for your vibration, and for your inner world of happiness.

The world view of jumping. The world view of binary switch reality.

Yesterday I had a long call with one of my coaching clients.

He is long on desire, and short of ambition.

Almost any bait will get him to a feverish pitch of desire… “hoohoo! I’ll make a million bucks!” Like that…

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Top Five Regrets of the Dying and how to beat them

Top Five Regrets of the Dying and how to beat them

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.
2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.
3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

These are the top five regrets of the dying, and here is how to beat having these regrets, or any other

I have read articles about dying and I have read poems written by old-old people expressing their regrets. They are in death’s anteroom, and the view of their life and themselves is special from there: they are to the side and slightly elevated position from where they can both feel and see.
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Emotions are guidance… emotional turmoils, emotional upheavals are even more

It is the natural state of an Expanding Human Being to experience no emotions for hours, maybe even days at a time.

Emotions are a response to life, to danger, and should be momentary and responded to. Not the continuous torturous emotional states you are experiencing.

When something evokes a strong emotional response, fear, disgust, there is something you need to deal with. Something that is out of whack, something that is unfinished business, suppressed, swept under the rug, and threatens to throw you out of you equilibrium, your peace of mind.

Of course, for most people life is going from emotional turmoil to emotional turmoil, but it doesn’t change what I said: emotional turmoil is an indication that there is something unfinished, and it needs to be finished.

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How to live a life that is an experiment?

How to live a life that is an experiment, so you never get upset, or if you do, not for long.

Yesterday I really didn’t mean to experiment. It was a workshop I have run many times, easy peasy, done and I can go back to doing what I was doing… but no, this is not how it turned out.

In the 3-wishes workshop you can make three wishes. The catch is: they all need to be about money. Stupid thing… but that is how it is going to drive up something.
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Are you a money magnet? If not, read this article


What would put you into the vibration of money? Or why are you repelling money?
Summary: 90% of what keeps you in money, or what repels money from you are you attitudes towards people, including yourself.
It is not vibration, per se… but people feel it. And they refuse to give you money.
The solution is to develop attitudes more conducive, more attractive, more inviting to money.
Most of my courses are about that… Changing your attitudes…
The article below may be too scholarly for most of you…
What is blocking your ability to abundance? To making money, to accepting money, to do things worth money?

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Reprogramming Your Mind For Peace, Happiness, Achievement, and More

Reprogramming Your Mind

Huh? Reprogramming? For what? Why? How?

The biggest issues I encounter in my practice is the monkey mind. The noise. The morass. The voices you heed.

What am I talking about? I am talking about a busy mind, stuck in constant chatter, and unable to concentrate at the task at hand. Even to hear! When you are in this state, if you are like me, you are dreaming of reprogramming your mind.

Unless the task is a repetitive task, requiring no input from you, this may work, but if your input is required, especially if the input needs to be creative and complex, you are screwed! royally.
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24 Timeless Life Lessons From Children Stories

Some wisdom we could have learned as a child… but didn’t. But it is never late…

I came to America as an adult, and missed most of these animated movies… can you identify them for me? Please?

Also, if you have a good quote, wisdom, for life, from a children’s movie, a fairy tale, a cartoon, a fantasy movie, a book, please post it… I’d love to have a collection from my readers… and maybe create some illustrations for it. That would be really cool, right? Thank you in advance.

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Enough

I wrote this article in 2011… and by accident I stumbled on it again. there are 3500 articles on this blog… but there are no accidents. This distinction is a big missing for people…
Trying to figure out how to cross the river? You’ll cross the bridge when you get there…
I have been working on a new activator. I have tested it now with five testers. There is a new and exciting capacity in it, that I would like to share with you.
The activator is called “enough.”
… as in being enough, having enough, doing enough. Smart enough, knowledgeable enough, pretty enough, well-spoken enough, etc. etc. etc.

Nowadays, if you are like me, you find yourself fragmented. You are not able to focus. Your attention is pulled by text messages, ads, news, internet, emails, cell phone… it’s all over the place.

It is hard to know what’s important. it is hard to know what one should do with themselves. It is hard to know what’s worth doing and what isn’t.

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Want to change your future? You’ll need to change your past

Want to change your future? You’ll need to change your past… Your future will automatically change with it

The full title of the Playground course is: Playground: it’s never too late to have a happy childhood.
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