More about healing
Making you feel better, providing relief from suffering, making you happier… are these healing?
We can argue till the cows come home. You say yes, I say no.
My definition of healing is a complete return to the original design in a certain area of the body.
In matters of the spirit a little goes a long way.
One of the most puzzling things about Kabbalah has to do with the proportions of worldly to spiritual. It says it is 1%, as opposed to the 99% spiritual. Therefore if you do your job in the 1% reality, then the 99% reality will to its job. It is like putting in $1 to a self improvement fund, and your company would match it with $99. Good deal, isn’t it.
It may be a good deal, but very few do it.
Why? Because your mindset has to be certainty, instead of waiting for it to come, or hoping, or wishing, or at the other extreme, thinking that you can only count on yourself. Or strong desire… or hoping… or “faith”… or praying… or all the happy horseshit gurus teach.
None of those mindsets activate the 99%. Bummer.
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There is a difference.
What causes water’s low energy, water’s incoherence, is the little water spouts around impurities…
Just like you, your water is ADD, maybe even ADHD. Distilled water has more water spouts, so it is more incoherent even than tap water purified with primitive filters.
ADD and ADHD, in this connotation means that the water cannot pull it together, it is all over the place, it is confused, and it is hapless.
It may be strange to say that water is hapless, but that is how water feels… as an Empath I can tell you that. Starts and stops, attention span of a fly.
When you put incoherent water in your body, all hell breaks loose…
…even if you weren’t ADD before, it actually makes YOU incoherent, hapless, starts and stops… all over the place.
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In the 67 steps there is a method to make decisions using a calculator.
Nine out of ten students skip it, the one that does it does it shabbily. Students won’t do it or won’t do it right even after I send them back to do it.
Why? Because the method uses questions that you don’t want to ask. Why? Because they upset the apple cart.
I read a book, years ago, by a therapist, for people who can’t make a decision to leave or to leave… The one question that no one asked before was: when it was the best: was it really good?
I was in a relationship when I first read that book, so I asked the question and looked. And then looked at every relationship I had ever had. I found that even when it was the best, it wasn’t really good… for me. As hard as it was to accept that, I decided that I am not going to live on crumbs any more… I am happiest alone, married to my life-purpose… I left and I have been a lot happier ever since.
A new question is a change in perspective…
What is healing?
Our bodies designed to be well and stay well.
Some of us were born with defective genes, where the DNA was injured either in the fetus, or in the ancestors…
What would damage the DNA? for the most part the cause of permanent damage is lack of energy to notice an aberration or repair it…
We are all entrepreneurs, potentially.
The principle is: an entrepreneur is someone who remakes the world in the image of themselves.
There are a few problems we’ll have with this principle:
The main problem is that we have no idea who we are, how we are, what we really like, what are our strengths, what are our weaknesses.
We keep ourselves so busy with irrelevant stuff, that we never have a chance to see how we are when things are relevant.
Back in 1988, I started a magazine. I was one person. Sold ads, designed the ads, wrote the articles, distributed the magazines to stores that gave them away for free.
I made enough money the first month to live on, and did that for quite a few months… but…
I read one or two threads on Reddit every morning.
This is how I stay in touch with what people think, what people say, what people find funny, what grieves them.
Today the discussion was what could convince an atheist to become a believer. What could change their mind?
This is right up my alley… That is all I have ever wanted to know: what would change your mind?
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Since the last article, I’ve kept on poking at simplicity… and the idea of decision making came up… fast and furious. I didn’t expect it.
Like everything else, this rabbit hole is a mile deep, but I can see that the benefits of seeing what’s there are priceless… People who make fast and good decisions, go further in life.
Success loves speed.
Our simplistic, skating on the surface approach to everything is of course what is keeping us stuck in hovering above being a human animal… but not moving on from there.
My Sunday call was again very useful in this… bringing the seemingly disparate, unrelated, large number of components that could gel into a coherent picture… why we don’t have simplicity, why we have disorder and clutter instead.
I am indecisive… in important things and in small things as well. I can make a quick buying decision, but that’s the only place I am decisive.
I would not have thought that the enemy of simplicity is indecisiveness, but found a ton of articles that claim that simplicity is turned into disorder and unnecessary complexity through indecisiveness.
Doing things to avoid making a decision. I just sat through a 2-hour webinar that made my head hurt: the developers of a software are including everything that anyone can wish for… instead of creating simplicity and elegance… something i would buy, but I see that if I bought the cumbersome version, I would never have the time to master it.
I see indecisiveness there… indecisiveness that destroyed marketability: I am not buying.
OK, back to myself: I have three ways to make decisions:
1. knee jerk reaction fueled by some strong and temporary emotion, anger mostly. Or vengefulness. Less often, but it is still there.
2. no decision.
3. the thing can be muscle tested… so the muscle test makes the decision for me.
I have a hunch that I am not alone with this tendency to avoid making decisions: the number of people I have met who, after having made a decision to retire, leave, quit, divorce, now artificially sustain the decision making emotion…. showing that they never actually made the decision: it was the emotion that did it.
Divorce, retirement, changing jobs… all fueled by and then justified forever by ugly emotions, finger pointing, and acting like a victim.
No one says: I left because I decided to leave… no, that is not justifiable… there has to be more… for it to be politically correct
But in essence this shows that people are unable or afraid to make decisions.
Including myself.
Why? Does it matter? Because responsibility is one of the highest spiritual capacities, leading to a successful life… A threshold capacity.
It is useful to learn ways of decision making, making decisions that we can be happy with.
Some, like myself, can’t decide what to eat, so I leave myself no choice… I eat what I have. Going out? No way!
The key element, the key capacity is responsibility.
The type of energetic attachments, put on you by witches and healers and sorcerers, I have, so far, distinguished (There are more, but I haven’t seen my way clearly around them. I can remove these attachments, but no distinctions yet…)
Random, shooting in the dark attachment…
a less skillful “healer”, shooting a dart in your general direction. It’s much like a flash wound… it hurts, it bothers you, but it doesn’t go deep.
Today, I could feel that the world is holding its breath.
You see, we are all connected, whether we believe in it or not.
We experience a faint reflection of each other’s feelings and mind-states. Often I wish it weren’t so.
This morning I was observing a deep sense of sadness eating away at me… but it wasn’t mine. I contacted the person who “originated” the feelings, and she knew exactly what I was talking about.
So, when I feel that the world is holding its breath, I know it because I feel it.
