Why aren’t you the captain of your life? And how could you be?
Or how to go from drifting to achieving…
In this article I am going to give you the secret. The secret to success. The secret to a good life. And you probably won’t hear it… and ignore it.
How do I know? I have been doing it long enough that I finally distilled the secret down to the one issue that if it is there, you cannot be successful. AND you can’t hear me. The two are connected.
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If I understand correctly, Adyashanti is a guy’s name…
Personal vibration: 90
What he teaches: 90
why so low? Because the guy is talking all Tree of Knowledge, something he has never experienced. I could say he is talking out of his arse, but when I listen to him, I can hear this: he is talking out of his memory, and his self-righteous and self-assured “self” which is a very very very low vibration.
Who does he attract? like attracts like, and he attracts people just like himself. What is the common characteristic of the people who are attracted to what he is saying? He is explaining that enlightenment is not a 24/7 bliss… and yet, the people that he attracts are the MacDonald’s wholesale transformation forever hoping types.
Do not bother listening to him.
Now, a few words from me, and where I am speaking from is the nothing that is outside of the MIND (not ego as he says) and from personal experience through connecting to all-of-it.
There is no 24/7 bliss.
‘If it is to be, it is up to me’ The horizontal and vertical dimensions of life
Most people interpret that statement, that declaration, in a rah-rah, motivational slogan way.
But even when they use that narrow interpretation, they don’t commit to it, they don’t lock themselves in, they don’t burn the ships, they leave a back-door open, although they never tell the truth about it.
They have a secret addendum: if I feel like it, if my mind agrees, when I’ll feel confident enough, if the weather is nice, if it’s easy, if it doesn’t take too much of my time.
What is the real meaning of little hinges swing big doors? What glorious thing can it mean to you and your entrepreneurial aspirations?
Without understanding that life is a collection of interactive systems, without understanding the seesaw principle, without being able to create, manage, and tweak systems. your life will work as it has always worked. just barely…
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Some people are motivated (put into motion) by negative emotions, like fear, hate, refusing something with so much energy that it finally puts them in motion: until then they cannot get unstuck.
Other people are motivated by accomplishment, joy, love, freedom, or some other positive event or emotion.
The problem is how to crank up the energy of the emotion, negative or positive, so there is enough energy in it to put you in motion, to get unstuck.
The enemy of any forward movement is complacency, cynicism, resignation. These are real strong energies. If we wanted to express their effect, they are like a ton of weight on the see-saw. If you want to make the see-saw move, you need to pile up the weight on the other side.
Most people leave this to chance, hope that something will move them from dead center to get unstuck.
Other people cause breakdowns to get unstuck.
Why It’s Dangerous To Give Advice by Roy H. Williams, the Wizard of Ads®
I am, by profession, a communications consultant. I craft strategies, write ads and buy media. My clients ask for my advice. They even pay me for it.
Advice is dangerous to give.
If you are thinking, “Yes, it’s dangerous to give advice because your advice might be wrong,” you probably haven’t worked full-time in a focused specialty for 30 years. Yes, there is a chance my advice might be wrong, but that’s not the principal danger.
Advice is always dangerous because a person only needs it when:
they’re making decisions based on incorrect assumptions.
they made a mistake that triggered unhappy repercussions.
they’re looking at a situation from an unproductive angle.
Why are most self-help books, courses worthless?
Worthless other than being boring? lol…
They bore the heck out of me… but that is my problem, I guess.
The reason they are worthless because they talk about what to do, but they never teach about consolidation.
My teacher in creating courses taught that the first session needs to give people a quick big win… so they get excited and stay in the course.
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The drama triangle… switch up the roles!
The drama triangle is a useful model inside which you can examine, re-live, and heal any conflict.
Conflict is a nice name where what one person/ one company/ one group/ one country’s point of view, self-interest doesn’t agree with some other person’s or group’s self-interest.
It’s normal. But it is doubly normal for children. Small children. A conflict with the parents.
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You want to know your vibration. Or if I want to be more precise, your EGO wants to know. It’s a curiosity thing. It doesn’t have anything to do with anything else. Novelty, exciting, fleeting.
And you should want to know. Knowing where you are is mandatory if you want to get anywhere else. No map will do you any good unless you know where to put the big X on the map: here I am. Or sometimes:
‘Darn… here I am. I thought I was somewhere else…’
The Unconditional Love Activator is a simple activator. If you can allow it to work on you, it can silence the crew that is protesting. It can silence the ‘Precious I’ who you consider yourself to be, and allow the two selves to connect.
So what happens when you, who you consider yourself to be, and your Self, the core, the empty space connect?
You see, that empty space is like a vertical pipe. It goes from the center of the Earth to All-of-it. To Source.
So the moment you, who you consider yourself to be, connects to the Self, through the Self you can be connected to All-of-it.
That is a ‘can be’, because it needs you to INTEND to connect.
Intention is not the same as wanting.
You have been wanting all your life, but intending? Most of you have never intended anything. Intention comes from the Self… as does Responsibility, and even the Will.
But once your two selves can connect, you can activate the spinal wave… and life will never be the same.
The 1000, aka The Superiors, unconsciously activate the spinal wave, and their effectiveness comes from there.
They are entirely acting on the captain’s orders, not on the many voices of the crew.
Is the crew silent in them? No. But who they consider themselves to be, the captain, doesn’t listen to the crew, or not often.
If and when they do, in that moment, they stop being a 1000.
And this takes us to something very important:
Yesterday’s accomplishment is a memory today, unless it is consolidated. If it stays in existence. If you can build on it.
In this work we primarily work with energy-like stuff… and energy, the moment isn’t fed, disappears.
energy, the moment isn’t fed, disappears.
The path between the two selves, the moment you stop giving it energy, grows into a tangle of brambles… meaning: you can’t permanently shut up the crew, the voices, anything.
Just like you are told to brush your teeth every day, I tell you to attend to your spiritual self every day.
It takes time, and it takes undisturbed, uninterrupted time. Alone time.
If your entire day has background noise, the TV, radio, music with words, people, you won’t be able to consolidate.
You won’t be able to stay in touch with and heed the Self’s guidance… you will be like the ship that has no captain, and every crew member will have a voice. The loudest, the worst voices win.
Just look at America. Can you see that the ‘warrior women’, simple crew members, holler and occupy air time. No head… no captain… a ship going in zig-zag to no good place, guaranteed.
So what could change you, the you you consider yourself to be, to actually do work that you have never done. To do work consistently.
Some hope or desire to get to the Promised Land? The desire for freedom? A life you love? power?
I say all of these propeller like energies are insufficient to keep you consistently in action.
They are weak, and even the memory of a little success sucks the energy out of them. So you’ll stop… you’ll say you have enough.
So
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