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The homework attitude and the desire trap

I got an insight today…

People are asking one question and one question only: how do I get started? How do I get to where I want to get to?

And when I tell them how to get started, they ask the same question again. My answer wasn’t good enough.

So the insight I got is this: when you followed the current harmful teaching to imagine yourself where you want to be, you are expecting me to hand you the key… not tell you how to build that new reality from the bottom up.

This “imagine…” bullshit has destroyed people’s ability to see themselves, and reality, accurately.

Nothing works the way those “imagine…” people say… everything in reality is built from the ground up.

Yesterday someone asked me how to talk to someone to get a date.

I offered, instead, to look if he is ready to date, if he knows what he wants from dating, what is his agenda, etc.

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What the heck is the worth a damn factor, what is yours, and how do you raise it?


My declared purpose is: I work to raise the truth value of people’s world view and consequently raise their vibration. This article is, seemingly, not about truth value and not about vibration… it is about your worth a damn factor and your happiness… Seemingly…

Here is a world view that is very frequent, and very deadly for your vibration, and for your inner world of happiness.

The world view of jumping. The world view of binary switch reality.

Yesterday I had a long call with one of my coaching clients.

He is long on desire, and short of ambition.

Almost any bait will get him to a feverish pitch of desire… “hoohoo! I’ll make a million bucks!” Like that…

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