If you are an empath, you are almost always miserable. Your challenge is that your feelings do not inform you about your own state, about your own challenges. There is no guidance, or at least you can’t tell what feeling is guidance and feeling isn’t.
As an empath myself, this is my experience:
As long as I had issues with my worthiness, every feeling I felt meant to me something about my unworthiness… by mistake.
Alone is one of the itches we identify on my Itch.
An itch is something that you want, desperately, to come to you, from the outside. But even when it does, it doesn’t do it for you, it doesn’t scratch the itch. Only you giving what you want scratches the itch.
The perfect example is the fireplace: you want heat from the fireplace. After all the fireplace is supposed to give you heat and coziness, and romance, and a sense of home.
But in real life, you need to feed the fireplace, before it will give you heat… let alone cozy and romance and a sense of home.
When you have Alone as your itch, you are always disappointed, because no matter what you do, the alone follows you, like your shadow.
If investing 10 years in service of learning a profession, learning an art would make you a winner… then there would be a lot of winners. A lot more than there are…
There must be something more that most people don’t know or don’t do…
…and neither do or know their mentors, their trainers, their managers, their teachers.
Capacities, DNA capacities are invisible. They are the seed level of any ability, of any success.
The second part of the title, “except that not always” is doesn’t apply for at least 10% of you: you won’t even see the difference when I point it out.
The most frustrating thing is, that you are sure you are saying or understanding the right words… but you don’t. And you blame it on the speaker saying that what they said doesn’t work.
How do I know?
For most people, who become a student in my programs, this is the first hurdle to pass.
You come into my program with a 300 accurate vocabulary, and you only hear the words you think you know what they mean, but that is not what I said.
I only find out what you heard when you tell me my words back to me… wrong. inaccurate. different words. Different meaning. Or Tai’s words, if you are in the 67 steps coaching…
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There is a secret to mastery most people will never crack.
Most people will never see… because it is in plain sight and yet invisible.
The movie Karate Kid gives away… and still no one gets it
There is a turning point in the movie Karate Kid 1984. The original movie.
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I have been working with myself and two clients on cracking our engrams.
Engrams
Engrams are much like a memory capsule, much like an airplane’s black box. They are recorded with a human yet mechanical recording device, the reptilian brain, that never sleeps.
The content of the engrams is every detail around a traumatic incident where you were in an altered state, sleeping, fainted, in anesthesia, or in a shock. None or little of it is available to the conscious mind, directly, instead the engrams act like a hidden program, like an ad-ware, that pops up whenever there is any similarity between the present moment and the moment of the engram recording.
In 1996, which was 15 years ago, I had a friend do a therapy session with me, that was weird, but very effective. It also left him with a burn mark on his thumb.
Like with any diet, both the what and the how are crucially important.
I’ll show you later in this article, that even if you eat the right things, if you eat wrongly, the how, you won’t feel good… you won’t get well. You won’t be present to life.
And so it is with your Netflix diet as well.
Here is how I watch Netflix…
I watch only stuff that will teach me the skills by pointing me to the capacities I could distinguish and then practice. I even take notes!
Whenever I see something noteworthy, I stop and contemplate it for minutes… long minutes. I consider Netflix my mentor…
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There are really two types of people when it comes to making more money: one group will chase the mirage, the lottery approach, winning, betting on schemes… and the other, the tiny group that sees that making more money is a natural fallout of becoming worth a damn.
I am interested in talking to the second group, the tiny group.
You see, knowing that you should become worth a damn is nice and dandy… but knowing with pinpoint accuracy where you aren’t… what it is that you need to do next to increase your worth a damn factor is crucial.
Life is holographic. Maybe it is the Universe… but who am I to just repeat something I heard… I don’t know about the Universe. But I do know about Life.
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What happens when you put a low vibration person in a high vibration environment? Will their vibration rise?
Is vibration like water? When you mix hot water with cold you get tepid water? No… environment doesn’t effect your vibration… only what’s inside does.
And what happens when you put a high vibration person in a low vibration environment? And don’t be mistaken: environment is only people. What makes an environment low vibration is people.
Deserts, ruins, etc. are not low vibration apart from the residual energy people have left.
Because, of course, everything vibrates, yes. But that is not what we call vibration. What we call vibration here is consciousness… and that is an entirely human phenomenon.
Everything ‘they’ say about vibration, raising your vibration on the internet is simply a lie, an attractive sales pitch… NONE OF IT IS TRUE.
Anyway, back to the question: What happens when you put a high vibration person in a low vibration environment is what happened to me in the coaching program I was kicked out of… recently. And then yesterday I was kicked out of my mobile app… Cancel culture…
What decides a person, what decides a program’s vibration… ultimately?
Many things, but I will go out on a limb, and say that the ultimate decider, the ultimate factor is the intention.
Whether the person or the program is based on desire to receive for the self alone (evil) or the desire to receive for the sake of sharing.
It is entirely possible to have a different intention in different areas of life… So this is a scale between 1 and 100, even inside the same person.
The ultimate measure that indicates the degree, I think, is to what degree you and your concern occupies your cone of vision, your visual field, your conscious awareness.
And your intention will be based on what you see when you look.
To the degree you want to muscle everyone under your thumb…
The degree you want to be right
To the degree you want to look good
The degree you have contempt for others
To the degree you design your activities to serve you and only you
The intention.
In yesterday’s Prison Break session we went deep with this intention.
Not accidentally, no one in the class knew that intention is an energy. Intention is like a third arm, and can move mountains.
You move it, you operate it with your brain… It springs from the back of your head, where your visual processing center is. Look it up.
Intention is the organ of causing.
Causing what belongs to you. Your will, your discipline, your self-confidence, your declarations, your whole life…
Really.
I don’t teach anything that you can use to harm or force another. I also don’t give myself permission to use energies like that, moves like that, and I won’t teach you either.
But I know about energies like that… I am so old I have tried a lot of things. Including influencing the behavior of a softball team… and much much
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The power of intention
Most people don’t know the power of intention, it because they have never experienced it, because they don’t know how to get access to intention.
They never intend. They live inside wanting to, needing to, having to, and should… the horizontal plane, the Valley of the Shadow of Death… Fear of death, fear of annihilation.
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